“我必须成功才能有相对的自由。我才有足够的自信告诉别人我究竟是怎么样的一个人。我必须做道120分才能得到基本的尊重。这是少数/边缘群主过度证明。女性说男性做到80分就可以合格，我们必须做到120分是典型的例子。这是她获得尊严的方式。这意味到很大的自我付出，自我伤害。” – 项飙 (Xiang Biao) I came across a zaobao (早报）reel reporting on his talk at the local university explaining why certain groups such as immigrants, women, minority groups feel the need to “put in 120%”. This was the way the person would set the threshold for self respect at huge personal costs. I was…

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